Hi, I have had a problem that has been bothering me for awhile; I am a closet bisexual (at least to the people in my personal life, though not under semi-anonymity, obviously). I am not really secure enough at the moment to come out, and I honestly don’t think I ever will be. I’m not quite sure how to phrase this, but do you think that it would be prudent for me to come out? I feel as though I’m not being true to myself, but on the other hand, I live in a very socially backwards community.

September 15, 2012

perpertualblacksheep asked: Hi, I have had a problem that has been bothering me for awhile; I am a closet bisexual (at least to the people in my personal life, though not under semi-anonymity, obviously). I am not really secure enough at the moment to come out, and I honestly don't think I ever will be. I'm not quite sure how to phrase this, but do you think that it would be prudent for me to come out? I feel as though I'm not being true to myself, but on the other hand, I live in a very socially backwards community.

You have to do what’s right for you. Who am I to say what you should do. I don’t know you personally. I can’t begin to understand your life. That’s why I don’t like giving advice online, or to strangers.

I can’t really help you. You have to make the decision for yourself.

I didn’t come out until I moved out and could support myself. That’s about all I can say :D Have a great night!