Live life. Enjoy it. Take one day at a time. Every single silly saying you’ve ever heard, take it for what it is.
Sexuality, for some, is never definite. That’s okay. You just have to be okay with it.
It’s up to you, how you want to define yourself.
I define myself as a lesbian so that men won’t ask me out.
Will I still sleep with them? Yes.
But sleeping with and starting a life with, are two different things for me.
Many say that I shouldn’t say I’m a lesbian, but how else am I to clarify that I won’t date men…ever?
I make it my own. I’m a self-identifed lesbian and I’m okay with that :D